Sunday, September 5, 2010

So he lost it...


Yep, 8 months in and Jarrod's already lost his wedding ring. I told him, 'if you keep taking it off you'll lose it!"....and he did....Men! HA! When I lost my ring in the car once I was freaking out trying to frantically find it, and although I know he is really cut up about it but it doesnt seem to phase him as much as I thought it would. Is it just a man thing? That wedding rings are just rings? I know some married men who don't wear their wedding rings, some because they work as labourers and some because it feels weird. How do you feel about your man wearing a wedding ring?

11 comments:

  1. Oh No!!! MEN!!! My husband takes his off all the time for the gym, washing the car and things like that. He only wears it when we go out or when he goes to school. I'm not afraid he'll lose it I'm always afraid that he'll forget to put it on.

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  2. My Mr. had lost 3 rings during the time we dated... like 'my dream ring' he always takes it off for the gym, football, gardening etc. & sometimes forgets to put it back on... but going on his not so strong history of not recovering the rings he's taken off, he was given an altematum (is that how you spell it?)... if you lose this one - i'll tattoo the next one on~!

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  3. He did better than my uncle... my uncle lost his on the first weekend!

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  4. Even though im not married yet i wouldn't expect my hubby to wear his wedding ring as he is a labourer and i like his fingers attached to his hand! But we have discussed that hes going to have one for other times and maybe get a small finger tattoo

    But typical guy losing a ring!

    Vanessa
    mz.fizh@live.com

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  5. My hubby got thinner like 3 months after the wedding so his wedding ring won't fit his finger anymore... I got a little bit upset because he hasn't gone yet to fix it to the jewerly store... but now I don't mind if some day I forget to wear mine...

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  6. my husband's ring got mysteriously "too small" for him about a year after the wedding!!

    (must be my great cooking!)
    -kelley

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  7. OH MEN!!! tut tut, i love a man in a wedding ring it's such a genuinely sexy thing to see... good excuse to buy him a replacement no?

    thea.
    xx

    (spoonfulzine.com)

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  8. This ring look very nice. I will buy this type of ring for my wedding.

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  9. Funny reading this blog as my husband just lost his ring and it'll be almost 7 months. I think he is more distraught than I am. He did the same, took it off and misplaced it! I think its important to remember that men loose their rings...not sure why, but they do! I brought it up the other day at dinner and all the other married men at the table had lost their ring at some point or multiple points. I'm sorry it happened to your husband and I'm sorry it happened to mine, but its not worth fusing over....I often wonder how he would feel if I lost my engagement ring...I think I'd sleep on the couch for a week! :)

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  10. If comments are still being welcomed on the subject, I just wanted to share... I am a successful, mature 35 year old male who waited till later in life to begin a family. For the first time, and after two years of dating, I am hoping to be engaged soon to the love of my life. I am very excited for the day that we are officially husband and wife. There are men out there that are still traditional and are honored to show their pride in being "taken" and proudly married to their best friend. My personal feeling is that it is certainly a piece of jewelry, but it symbolizes a committment that should be unshakable and sacred. The ring is not only a public display, but a reminder of your decision to offer your honor, display your integrity, and uphold your vows. For what it's worth, I understand the laboring issues of wearing a ring, but beyond that, I can't imagine being with someone who isnt in love or committed enough to want to pridefully display their affection, in at least that very small way.

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